Monday, March 9, 2009

What if...?

You shouldn't can't live your life thinking "What if I had done this?", "What if I had gone there?", "What if I had said that?", "Where would I be?", because it will destroy you.
You made the decissions already, what's done is done. It's meant to be that way, not because of destiny... not because of chance... but because you said so, you took the path you're in right now, wether you like it or not. And you will continue to do such things throughout your whole life. There is no escaping decissions. Deciding not to decide is a decission itself. See what I mean?
So why is it so hard for some people, including me at times, to accept the reality they're living?
Is it so hard to see the good things in everything? To see the light at the end of the tunnel?

Let me tell you.

It is.

But don't give up. Never give up. You cannot afford to back down. You can't shut off your brain, you can't evade reality, you can't pretend things aren't happening.

Face your problems, confront your demons, if you're in that kind of situation.
Or rather enjoy your life, the situation you're in right now. Live in the present. Don't look back unless it's to remember the good times. Don't worry about the future, the future doesn't exist and no one assures you it will, for you at least. Go with the flow. Let life take you to places you never imagined. With each step you take you're closer to the end, and it's not about where you're going, it's about the journey and what you make of it.



  1. THIS is something that fits me perfectly at the moment.
    You're right about so many things. and it IS hard. We sometimes, or me for the most part, have trouble realizing the good things in life and accepting the path that our decisions have taken us. We should continue living our life. and be grateful for our families, friends and all the persons that are in our lives that even though they don't know it, they fill us up.

  2. btw. the picture is SOOOOOO cute. <3

  3. Never giving up.
    Always seeking light..
    We must always try, try with all our might.

    I wanted to share that with you :)